Frequently Asked Questions
We know family law can feel overwhelming—and sometimes, just getting clear answers makes all the difference. Below you’ll find thoughtful responses to the questions we hear most often, designed to help you feel informed, prepared, and empowered as you move forward.
How can I create a holiday custody schedule for Christmas in Mecklenburg County?
Creating a Christmas custody schedule in Mecklenburg County doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. In North Carolina, the courts prioritize the best interests of the child, and your plan should reflect that. A well-crafted holiday schedule should be crystal clear, predictable, and child-focused.
Here’s how to build it:
- Start with what your child needs — rest, consistency, and time with both sides of the family.
- Choose a rotation that actually works for your family. Many co-parents alternate Christmas Eve and Christmas Day every other year, or split the holiday (for example, Christmas Eve with one parent, Christmas Day with the other).
- Put exact times in writing. “Morning” and “afternoon” leave too much room for interpretation.
- Think ahead about travel — if someone is flying or driving long distances, build in travel windows and designate exchange locations.
Put it in your Parenting Plan or Custody Order. In Mecklenburg County, judges prefer plans that resolve holiday conflict upfront, not after the fact.
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